
Originally Posted by
paige
Hi Mensch!
General mala rules I've been told include: metal isn't a good material, they should not be stepped on/over, worn into the washroom, or carried in a pocket below the waist. Recommended wear is the bracelet on the left wrist and to use the right hand for counting. When used for counting chants or prostrations, not to count over the meru bead but to turn the mala around and count back the other way. Broken or irredeemably soiled malas should be "disposed of respectfully." I'm not sure what is meant by that - I guess just don't throw them in the garbage. If just the string or elastic breaks, you can re-string them - red elastic seems popular, and makes the juzu easy to take on/off. Wood and seed ones have to be kept dry or they might get stained.
In visiting Jodo Shinshu temples, one should loop the mala over the hands to bow to the Buddha. I don't see this in Chinese temples, probably because of their fondness for prostrations over bowing. A Jodo priest told us that it's considered kind of pretentious for a layperson to wear the 108 bead mala, but I've seen some laypeople wear one not around the neck but wrapped several times over the upper or lower arm. I think that would irritate me, they look to slip down a lot.
I've heard differing opinions on whether laypeople should wear their juzu all the time or only while visiting a temple or while doing chants/prostrations. My Chinese teacher suggested wearing one pretty much all day, because you never know when you might want to chant. For example, to pass the time while waiting for a bus, or for saying Guan Yin prayers if you get nervous walking home at night. I think I'd get funny looks if I did that. :shock:
Tibetans seem very fond of malas, and I think they have some tradition that different colours and materials are more conducive to different practices. I don't know details on that though. I think Tibetans are the only ones to use bone for mala beads.