Lots of good stuff here, thanks everyone. I just wanted to comment on what Enkyo said, because after thinking about this quote for a long time, this is also the same conclusion I came to. I am a bookworm, I usually have 2 or 3 books that I am reading at once. Often to do with Zen Buddhism. I also like to listen to relaxing, Zen music. I am now starting to realize that perhaps putting the books away, turning the computer off, and living more in my life, this very present moment, can help my practice a lot. I watched Star Wars with my son the other day (I dislike Star Wars very much) but in that moment, I just sat there, no judgements, no labels, just sat and watched the show. Or I weed my garden, or make food for my children, or whatever, I'm beginning to see it all as Zen practice, not just the times that I am reading about zen, or even doing zazen meditation. For me, this is life-changing. Zen is not learned so much through intellect, as in doing away with the "junk" in my mind and just living, simply, in the moment.
Anyway, could say more, but on that note, my kids are hungry and I need to turn the computer off to live in the now.
