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Shoka
08-08-2019, 05:46 PM
Hey everyone,

I'll be honest listening to the news for the past week has been pretty awful in the US. Three mass shooting in just over a week, so so sad.

But then this morning I heard a story about the #ElPasoChallenge.

https://www.goodmorningamerica.com/living/story/11-year-el-paso-boy-creates-elpasochallenge-calling-64799799


When Ruben and his mom, Rose Gandarilla, got to their home and learned about the mass shooting at the Walmart that killed at least 22 people, Ruben became “very anxious,” according to Gandarilla.

“He asked if we could get a delivery service to deliver all of our groceries and everything we needed so we wouldn’t have to leave home,” she said. “We stayed inside most of the weekend.”

The day after the shooting, when Ruben began to ask his mom even more questions about why the shooting happened and what he could do to help, Gandarilla challenged her son to think of an idea that would “show the kindness of El Paso.”

Nearly 30 minutes later, Ruben, an incoming sixth grader, emerged with a notebook full of ideas. At the top of the notebook he had written out a hashtag, #ElPasoChallenge.

I absolutely love that his mother had the insight use this horrible time to teach about compassion.

Will you take up the #ElPasoChallenge?

Gassho,

Shoka
sat/LAH

Byokan
08-08-2019, 06:07 PM
Absolutely! Count me in. [gassholook] Thanks very much for posting this, Shoka!

Gassho
Byōkan
sat + lah

Shinshi
08-08-2019, 06:31 PM
Thanks for posting this Shoka. I am in.

Gassho, Shinshi

SaT-LaH

Onka
08-08-2019, 07:42 PM
Thanks for posting this Shoka.
Ruben and the fact that most people from El Paso wanted Trump to stay away are proof enough that El Paso and it's community are already warm and generous of spirit.
I remember when that Australian fascist killed 51 Muslim innocents recently in Christchurch, Aotearoa I didn't perform 51 acts of kindness. What I did, and like Ruben felt compelled to do was to phone the people I care about and/or call my family telling them that I love them and reminding them that my partner and I are there for them whenever and for whatever they may need. Given the merry band of complex misfits who make up my chosen family their responses were varied to say the least haha but it felt like something I had to do.
Be kind to yourself and look out for each other.
Gassho, Anna
Sat today

Geika
08-08-2019, 09:31 PM
Lovely. Thank you for sharing this..

Gassho

Sat today, lah

Sekishi
08-09-2019, 12:51 AM
Thank you Shoka. Count me in!


What I did, and like Ruben felt compelled to do was to phone the people I care about and/or call my family telling them that I love them and reminding them that my partner and I are there for them whenever and for whatever they may need. Given the merry band of complex misfits who make up my chosen family their responses were varied to say the least haha but it felt like something I had to do.
Be kind to yourself and look out for each other.


I think this is such a wonderful point Anna. We hear about events in the world that move our hearts to reach out a helping hand, but sometimes (oftentimes) its difficult to know exactly what to do. I know sometimes it leaves me feeling paralyzed. In the absolute sense, when we act for the good of one we act for the good of all. But even in the relative sense, when we feel moved to help, we should feed those seeds of kindness and compassion however we can.

When a tragedy happens, if we can directly help those impacted, let us please take the opportunity. If we cannot reach them, help another who suffers instead.

Deep bows to all,
Sekishi
#sat #lah

Jundo
08-09-2019, 01:36 AM
Wonderful. gassho1

Gassho, J

STLah

Doshin
08-09-2019, 04:04 PM
Beautiful.

This tragedy has weighed more on me that usual....how sad that I can use the word “usual” because these events are with us contantly. My emotions arise strongly every day. Maybe because I live so close and it is so personal. It is a place I have been a hundred times. I have friends there. My close friends have family there and in the city just across the border. I feel sorrow. I feel much anger. I apply all the Zen I have practiced these past many decades. But I am just an imperfect human and this crap hurts.

Doshin
St

Shoka
08-10-2019, 04:39 PM
Beautiful.

This tragedy has weighed more on me that usual....how sad that I can use the word “usual” because these events are with us contantly. My emotions arise strongly every day. Maybe because I live so close and it is so personal. It is a place I have been a hundred times. I have friends there. My close friends have family there and in the city just across the border. I feel sorrow. I feel much anger. I apply all the Zen I have practiced these past many decades. But I am just an imperfect human and this crap hurts.

Doshin
St

Doshin,

Thank you for sharing this. I don't think emotions are something that practice helps to eliminate, instead it helps with how to deal with them. As you did so well, you recognized exactly what they were and why they were rising now.

In the best world, sorrow and anger would move everyone to be compassionate. To take action that will transform how people react to emotions, so that tragedies like this become a thing of the past that we don't see as "usual" or "just another".

Thank you again for sharing, it is a good reminder that we are all so very close to what happened. It isn't something far off that only happens over there.

Gassho,

Shoka
st/lah

Doshin
08-10-2019, 07:32 PM
Doshin,

Thank you for sharing this. I don't think emotions are something that practice helps to eliminate, instead it helps with how to deal with them. As you did so well, you recognized exactly what they were and why they were rising now.

In the best world, sorrow and anger would move everyone to be compassionate. To take action that will transform how people react to emotions, so that tragedies like this become a thing of the past that we don't see as "usual" or "just another".

Thank you again for sharing, it is a good reminder that we are all so very close to what happened. It isn't something far off that only happens over there.

Gassho,

Shoka
st/lah


Thank you Shoka

gassho2

Doshin
st

Jundo
08-11-2019, 01:25 AM
As terrible as these tragedies are, we must not lose sight of the fact that ...

... for every act of violence each day, there are countless human acts free of violence. For every person who walks into a school or store and is harmed (let us never make light of the tragedy of even one person being harmed), there are billions and billions around the world who walk into a store or school, do their task and return home. For every act of violence, anger and racism ... there are countless little deeds in peace, ease and acceptance of others.

The media is right to highlight the ugliness of these events. The media can also cause us to lose perspective on the wider world. For every plane that crashes, for every shark attack, for every volcano ... countless people make it home, go to the beach, live next to a mountain that never erupts. Let us not forget that too. The world is not quite hopeless (not even the Buddha thought so, and the Zen masters of old certainly did not).

Do not let the "terrorists" win by being terrorized! Do not let the "haters" win by feeling your own hate and anger in response. Turn the other cheek, even as we take the steps in society needed to reduce hate, violence and division.

For every act of violence and hate, let us do 22 and 220 and 2200 acts of peace and love.

Very simple.

Gassho, J

STLah

Tairin
08-11-2019, 03:05 PM
As terrible as these tragedies are, we must not lose sight of the fact that ...

... for every act of violence each day, there are countless human acts free of violence. For every person who walks into a school or store and is harmed (let us never make light of the tragedy of even one person being harmed), there are billions and billions around the world who walk into a store or school, do their task and return home. For every act of violence, anger and racism ... there are countless little deeds in peace, ease and acceptance of others.

The media is right to highlight the ugliness of these events. The media can also cause us to lose perspective on the wider world. For every plane that crashes, for every shark attack, for every volcano ... countless people make it home, go to the beach, live next to a mountain that never erupts. Let us not forget that too. The world is not quite hopeless (not even the Buddha thought so, and the Zen masters of old certainly did not).

Do not let the "terrorists" win by being terrorized! Do not let the "haters" win by feeling your own hate and anger in response. Turn the other cheek, even as we take the steps in society needed to reduce hate, violence and division.

For every act of violence and hate, let us do 22 and 220 and 2200 acts of peace and love.

Very simple.

Gassho, J

STLah

Thank you Jundo. This is a wonderful message. As I type this I am sitting on my porch watching people walk, bicycle, jog, or drive by. Nothing special. Nothing news worthy. Just living peacefully.

gassho2
Tairin
Sat today and lah