Things do not come because you desire them; they come because you expect them. Rich people stay rich because they really donít expect to be poor especially the ones that were born that way, the ones who never have been poor their whole life, they really donít even hold that concept that they can ever be poor, whereas poor people donít expect to be rich. Itís deep rooted. Your world is created by your expectations. Look at the things you expect to happen versus the things you want to happen. You may desire to move up in the world, get a better job, yet in reality you donít expect it, you expect to stay working at that 9-5 job you hate, you expect not to improve, because of it, you donít. Why is that? Because we donít approach the things we want the same way we approach the things we expect. You may want a new job, yet in reality you expect not to get it so you are going to act, unconsciously, in a way that is going to plant the seeds for you not to get it. If you expected a better life, truly expected it, your actions will reflect it in such a way that you will be planting seeds for it that life to grow.
I know you have seen this; there are girls and guys who are really attracted yet they have such a low mental image of themselves that they never get girlfriends/boyfriends, or even friends because they donít expect people to like them. Then there are those people who are dorky looking who have some of the most beautiful women/men under their arms, because they expect people to like them.
Do you truly expect to get what you want?
Just some thoughts...