buddhism isn't nice
at least that's been my experience.
it's always been kind (even when 'cruel' -- see Hamlet's speech to Ophelia--telling her to get herself to a nunnery).
Do we need help with something?
Can we help someone with something?
It is ok, too, to not need anything, to not need to 'do' anything.
We don't need to 'post with such haste' (thank you, sweet Hamlet) we don't need to never ever post
or never post again
If we need things to be 'nice' we're in the wrong place, buddhism isn't.