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    SIT-A-LONG with Jundo: gratitude & Great Gratitude

    This "Buddha quote", however nice it sounds, is not something the Buddha likely said at all (turns out to be from the cheery 70's writer on love, Leo Buscaglia). Oh, the Buddha certainly taught us to be grateful for this precious life, but also to be Grateful (Big "G") in a way that puts down the balance sheet and any need even to hunt for the "silver lining".

    What is the difference between gratitude and Great Gratitude seen in a Buddha's Eye?

    Daido Loori once recommended this elegant, simple practice on daily gratitude. I will second the recommendation:

    Expressing gratitude is transformative, just as transformative as expressing complaint. Imagine an experiment involving two people. One is asked to spend ten minutes each morning and evening expressing gratitude (there is always something to be grateful for), while the other is asked to spend the same amount of time practicing complaining (there is, after all, always something to complain about). One of the subjects is saying things like, "I hate my job. I can't stand this apartment. Why can't I make enough money? My spouse doesn't get along with me. That dog next door never stops barking and I just can't stand this neighborhood." The other is saying things like, "I'm really grateful for the opportunity to work; there are so many people these days who can't even find a job. And I'm sure grateful for my health. What a gorgeous day; I really like this fall breeze." They do this experiment for a year. Guaranteed, at the end of that year the person practicing complaining will have deeply reaffirmed all his negative "stuff" rather than having let it go, while the one practicing gratitude will be a very grateful person. . . Expressing gratitude can, indeed, change our way of seeing ourselves and the world.
    This is a lovely, transformative practice. Yet, Daido would also remind us, there is a greater, transcendent, boundless Gratitude in the Buddha's Teachings that does not even need the subtle "see the bright side" "find the positive to counter the negative" or "personal pay-off of what's ultimately nice for 'me'" in the above sense of ordinary gratitude. Rather, there's an even Greater "Non-Pay-off" than that! A Jewel so precious, it shines as both earthly jewels and life's thrown bricks and stones in our shoe.

    Ordinary human gratitude is what we are encouraged to feel in the above exercise, and it is fine. In fact, it is wise, healthy and important. Yet there is a "Buddha's Gratitude" which is not dependent on what we "like" that momentarily pleases the selfish-self, that is not based simply on "looking out for the good side" or experiencing the "gorgeous" day. This Emptiness that is all Fullness -is- both the glass "half full" and "half empty!"

    A Buddha's Gratitude is Vast and Unlimited ... a Gratitude both for that which we love and that which we may not, a Treasure beyond yet holding mere "silver linings" "brass rings" and "lumps of coal". It is a Peace and Wholeness which transcends "pro vs. con", a Beauty which sees even the ugly times as "gorgeous day". We are grateful for life, for death, for health, for sickness .. each and all as Sacred. It is a Gratitude in the face of a cancer diagnosis, Gratitude that dances all disappointments, a Gratitude which comfortably holds even the tragedy of Syria or any other bloody field (a Gratitude that is Grateful, even as we seek to stop such tragedies in the world).

    This last point is vital too, for while such is a Gratitude ever Grateful for this world of both peace and war, health and disease, nonetheless we may seek for peace, fight the disease. While Grateful for this garden of both flowers and weeds, each a Jewel in Indra's Net, we may seek to water the flowers and pluck the weeds we can.

    Yes, it is a lovely Practice to not complain, and to learn to see the "bright side" of life's ups and downs. But I also recommend to sit Zazen, sit as Gratitude sitting, sit as this Light which holds light and dark and all shades in between.

    Yes, please practice daily the expressing of gratitude, and complain less and see the "negatives" less. Simultaneously, please let us work to make this world nicer, more peaceful, to end the wars, feed the hungry, nurse the sick. Yet let us also Sit a Buddha's Gratitude for ALL OF IT.



    Last edited by Jundo; 09-01-2013 at 12:35 AM.
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    Beautiful. This is a practice that is very important for me. Gratitude for all things in the fabric of life, including the tears and frayed edges!

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    Thank you Jundo ... I too think this is a very valuable practice. Sometimes life gets too busy and one can loose sight of all those wonderful things to be thankful for.

    Gassho
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    Thank you Jundo
    Sitting really is helping me to understand this.

    I shall resist the temptation to play this for my family at Thanksgiving.

    Gassho
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    Thank you.
    Gassho
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    As a trainee priest, please take any commentary by me on matters of the Dharma with a pinch of salt.
    "Here the way unfolds."

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    So beautiful and concise! I feel as though I always want and want, gratitude is something I am working on realizing.

    Gassho,
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    Thank you Jundo.

    Gassho,
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    With your help and guidance from Jundo & Taigu
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    Today, I would have to say that I am grateful for this moment, this moment has brought my family together, if only for this moment, after 28 years ... my mom, brother, and uncle sat, laughed, and created a lasting memory.

    I am thankful!

    Gassho
    Shingen



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    Quote Originally Posted by Shingen View Post
    Today, I would have to say that I am grateful for this moment, this moment has brought my family together, if only for this moment, after 28 years ... my mom, brother, and uncle sat, laughed, and created a lasting memory.

    I am thankful!

    Gassho
    Shingen
    Lovely!
    ALL OF LIFE IS OUR TEMPLE

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    I am grateful that I have achieved some degree of equanimity to accept all aspects of life - the good and the not good. Acceptance of the life force itself. A work in progress but I see some light at the end of the tunnel.

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    Thank you Jundo.
    Gassho
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    Thank you.

    Please excuse a paraphrase: "(We) have no cause for anything but Gratitude and Joy." - B


    Gassho,
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    Thank you Jundo. This was indeed an meaningful talk.
    Gassho

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    Thank you, Jundo.

    It's nice to make a list of all the things we can feel grateful for in a moment, even if just in your head.
    迎 Geika

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    Thank you, Jundo.

    Out of the anesthetized life that we usually live...with joyful eyes ... eyes of a child ... an amazed eye and grateful to learn.

    Gassho.

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    Thank you for this, Jundo. Recently, I have been doing a short, daily gratitude journal. Which, yes, is helpful. Your commentary, though, has helped put this in perspective.

    We are grateful for life, for death, for health, for sickness .. each and all as Sacred.
    Deep bows, Matt J

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    thank you teacher

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    Thank you.

    Gassho,

    Risho

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    Many thanks, Jundo!

    Gassho,

    Timo
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    Thank you Jundo,
    being the master of rejection I'm at least very grateful for tis teaching,
    Gassho
    Myoku

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    "When we sit shikantaza, we are this gratitude."

    Thank you for this talk and for the above in particular.

    Gassho
    Shōmon

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    That is an important and difficult (to practice) distinction. Thank you, Jundo.
    Gassho,
    Kaishin

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    There is a beautiful subtlety, a powerful subtlety, in this Jundo. Thank you for the heart-honesty with which you have offered it.

    Sean

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    Thank you Jundo. It is always important to be reminded of this.

    Gassho

    Simon

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