Re: You're Becoming a What?
Hi Perry,
Thank you for posting a lovely article. I would not much agree with the writer that necessarily "Reincarnation and karma explain how we got here." They may or may not and, in any event, I try to live this life now in a gentle way, avoiding harm. Also, as we are discussing on that other thread ...
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... I do not think that all forms of Christianity or Judaism are as she describes her experiences, and some folks can open their hearts and minds wide enough ... beyond barriers and self imposed obstacles ... to find richness in many traditions, and to build on common ground. In fact, the closed mindedness, superstition and lack of realistic answers she paints describes just as easily certain flavors of Buddhism that I know.
I also do not think that divorcing one's spouse and becoming a cloistered nun or monk is necessarily the best or only path for most people, although it certainly is the path for some people whose heart may lead them in that direction. For others, we can practice with husbands, wives, children, jobs and daily responsibilities ... experiencing the 'Buddha-light' that shines through and as each and all.
I did very much appreciate this passage ...
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Some Westerners feel that if they adopt Asian cultural forms, they are practicing the Dharma. Some assume that Asians--being from far away and therefore exotic--are holy. Meanwhile, other Westerner practitioners grew up with Mickey Mouse like everyone else, and seem ordinary. I am not saying that Western practitioners are equal in realizations to our Asian teachers. There is no basis for such generalizations, because spiritual qualities are completely individual. However, fascination with the foreign--and therefore exotic--often obscures us from understanding what the path is. Spiritual practice means that we endeavor to transform ourselves into kind and wise people. It is not about idolizing an exotic teacher or adopting other cultural forms, but about transforming our minds. We can practice the Dharma no matter what culture we or our teacher come from; the real spiritual path cannot be seen with the eyes for it lies in the heart.
also this:
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Similarly, the Western emphasis on individuality can be both an asset and a hindrance to practice. On one hand, we want to grow as a person, we want to tap into and develop our potential to become a Buddha. We are willing to commit ourselves to a spiritual path that is not widely known or appreciated by our friends, family and colleagues. On the other hand, our individuality can make it difficult for us to form spiritual communities in which we need to adapt to the needs and wishes of others. We easily fall into comparing ourselves with other practitioners or competing with them. We tend to think of what we can get out of spiritual practice, or what a spiritual teacher or community can do for us, whereas practice is much more about giving than getting, more about cherishing others than ourselves. His Holiness the Dalai Lama talks about two senses of self: one is unhealthy--the sense of a solid self to which we grasp and become pre-occupied. The other is necessary along the path--the valid sense of self-confidence that is based on recognizing our potential to be enlightened. We need rethink the meaning of being an individual, freeing ourselves from the unhealthy sense of self and developing valid self-confidence that enables us to genuinely care for others.
Gassho, Jundo
Re: You're Becoming a What?
Hi.
Thx for that one.
I'll print it out and read it today.
Mtfbwy
Fugen
